Red Flags — Safely Bound

FLAGS IN KINK RELATIONSHIPS CAN LOOK A LITTLE DIFFERENT

FROM THOSE IN THEIR VANILLA COUNTERPARTS.

It’s common that people new to the scene may not recognize signs of harmful behavior. While the community emphasizes consent, some people unfortunately find ways to evade it in subtle ways.

While many of these red and green flags are the same as the ones in any kind of relationship, there are additional considerations when kink is involved, such as the person’s resistance to safewords.

🚩 COMMON RED FLAGS IN ALL ROLES OFTEN

INCLUDE, BUT ARE NOT LIMITED TO:

Insists that you don’t use safewords

Coerces you to do something you defined as a limit
Refuses to provide aftercare if you ask for it
Their partner doesn’t know they’re doing this
Doesn’t want to communicate their needs

Articles

🚩 in Dominants

‘You’ve got to build that connection first’: Red flags to watch out for in BDSM dominants
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Metro.co.uk                       
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How to Spot Red Flags in a Toxic Dominant Partner
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Sofia Grey                       
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10 Red Flags of Bad or Abusive Dominants
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Submissive Guide                       
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How Do You Figure out Toxic Dominants within BDSM Relationships?
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Global Orgasm                       
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BDSM Red Flags
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Delicto                       
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Protect Yourself: 5 Red Flags to Watch for in a Potential Dominant
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Kinkly                      
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🚩 in submissives

What Are Red Flags for Submissives?
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Rope Connections                      
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6 Red Flags From Submissives That Turn Off Dominants
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Loving BDSM                 
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Top 5 Signs of Bad Submissives
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Bound Together                 
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Red Flags of Submissives in BDSM
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Global Orgasm            
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🚩 in general

Red Flags in BDSM
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Submissive Feminist         
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Videos

🚩 in Dominants

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